Throw your heart into it, and the rest will follow.” —Velveteen Rabbit.
That’s one smart bunny.
My Heart’s a Drum
(Francesca De Grandis, 2013)
Sun bright, stars near,
may my kindred spirits hear
the call I make—my heart a drum
that’s calling tribe: “Come! Come!”
Come! There’s a Faerie Solstice ritual on Monday June 24, from 3 to 4:00 PM EST.
The event is a group phone call. Free and open to all. (Your long-distance charges apply, and appear on your phone bill). No experience needed.
To participate, call 1-712-775-7000. When prompted, enter 1095248#. Dial a few minutes before 3:00; it can take a bit to connect, and latecomers are not allowed.
I’m calling tribe: “Come! Come!”
Update, June 2020:
1) Revisiting this post from seven years ago, I continue to see how marketing your services or goods can be scary and sometimes met by anger or other hurtful responses. So I’ve added a few more solutions I hope you find useful.
2) If any of the ways I market sound too foo-foo to be practical, I can assure you that using magic and running an ethical business helped my book Be a Goddess! become a longtime bestseller and allowed me to pay my bills by being a professional shaman for decades. Magical spells can be practical. Ethics don’t leave you lagging behind the competition.
This post uses my personal experiences marketing shamanic services as a jumping off point to write about problems and solutions that can be relevant to whatever heart-filled service or product one wants to market. Also, my tales build the ground work to share here a bit of my philosophy that helps me overcome challenges discussed herein.
Many people react negatively when I promote my shamanic classes or services. There is such corruption in modern marketing that they assume my motives and marketing methods are the same as that of the endless unethical sales-pitching creeps they’ve already met.
I don’t blame folks for their suspicion, but it still upsets me. For me, marketing is simply reaching out. Reaching out and letting someone know, “Heya, I might be able to be of service.”
I want to help people.
I also get criticized for being passionate about my work. I love that what I do really helps people. I also tremendously enjoy the work itself. Not that it’s always pleasant or easy. The work can be very difficult, for example when I’m guiding a trauma survivor. But even if I’m crying in empathy alongside the survivor, I’m grateful, because that person and I are in the real together. For that moment, we are authentic, honest, powerful, and moving forward. We are in deep connection with each other and cosmos, no matter how painful it might be for us.
But when I reach out to offer help (AKA am marketing), my passion is often misinterpreted. Decades of sales hype makes authentic enthusiasm suspect.
Expressing passion and offering help make one utterly vulnerable. I stand defenseless. Heart-based promotion is putting yourself out there nakedly. So when my sincerity is met by angry accusations, it can wound, discourage, or simply exhaust me.
However, my Gods take care of me, sending me the healing and strength and human camaraderie I need.
My Gods told me the shamanic gifts they’d given me were to be my 9-5. They added that, unless I strenuously reach out to offer my services (italicized words are my definition of vigorous marketing), I am hiding them, not being responsible to community. I can’t serve anyone unless they know the stats about my events. They also need a sense of me, because spiritual work is so personal.
So I reach out. With offers of help and info about who I am.
Selling art is not new. It is as old as art itself.
Marketing your services as a healer is not new. It is as old as healing itself.
Marketing shamanism is not new. It is as old as shamanism itself.
Selling jewelry is not new. It is as old as jewelry itself.
Any goods or services that come from the heart have been marketed for as long as they’ve been in existence. In every case, marketing is simply reaching out, driven by Gods, driven by a gift that seeks a giftee, driven by a passion for being of authentic service.
Here’s more support for you to market the gifts you’ve been given by the Divine:
1) Stand emotionally naked before your Divine Caretaker, ask for strength to offer yourself to others, whatever your gift, whether it is spiritual healing, baking cookies, crocheting, or anything else.
The Gods are smart. They give us talents that help others while helping self; we are blessed that, each time we serve, the gift we give wraps itself around us and kisses our own foreheads.
Be naked.
The Old Gods are pure magic. Asking for Their help wraps you in a magic that carries you toward your desired goals.
Sales magic!
2) Check out my Affirmation for Speaking from the Heart and Letting Go of What Other People Think. The post also has related ideas: https://outlawbunny.com/2020/01/03/do-what-you-believe-in-speak-from-your-heart-and-dont-let-judgmental-responses-stop-you/
3) Society’s wrongful division of the material and spiritual fuels the widespread belief that we should not earn our livings doing what we love. As a result:
* That schism might be in your psyche.
* Or you intellectually know better, but the schism remains emotionally, defeating your career success. E.g., you emotionally feel like you’re doing something wrong when you try to promote your work.
* Or people’s insistence it is wrong to earn—or impossible to earn—your way doing what you love has diminished or even crushed your fire to serve others in your ideal profession.
If an item in that list feels relevant, get my book A Sacred Marketplace: Sell without Selling Out or Burning Out. It has shamanic material to heal those problems and other inner blocks to success. Available only from the author here: https://outlawbunny.com/2015/10/15/a-sacred-marketplace/
4) Do you need support to face your inner blocks to marketing? I’m here for you. Make a shamanic counseling appointment.
If you already reach out, I praise you. Do you need support to do it bigger, more easily, or otherwise improve it? Make an appointment. I’m here for you. I have the background and down-to-earth mindset to channel both ritual empowerments and sound marketing ideas for you, should you desire.
5) Be kept abreast of my upcoming marketing and other courses: subscribe to my free newsletter. Even my shamanic courses that don’t focus on business still boost your career; the shamanism I teach helps you keep growing, showing up for life, and being of service, all of which helps with all your life goals, big time, whether professional, romantic, creative, or other. To subscribe, click this box:
Tsukineko All-Purpose Ink makes fabric-painting easy. Learn All-Purpose Ink (API) basics by painting a scarf, using the Colors in Bloom Set.
First wash a Light Jersey Circle Scarf, no fabric softener.
Then, iron the fabric (for more controlled paint strokes). Do not iron out the scarf’s stylish rolled edge. It will eventually re-roll, hiding any design you apply.
Cover your work surface with absorbent paper, e.g., opened-up brown paper bags. Over that, lay out the scarf right side up, best you can. Being a circle, it will not lie completely flat:
Use the pink and green inks from the Colors in Bloom Set to paint large swirls and sweeping lines. (If you prefer, first sketch these with a Jacquard Auto Fade Pen.) Shake ink well. Get a bullet pen from the set, and dip its soft tip into one of the inks, which will soak up into the barrel:
To apply API, gently draw the tip across the fabric. Have fun making large extravagant lines. Do not worry about your artistry: See the bulleted list below. Flatten out sections of the scarf to draw on as you go. It also helps to use your non-painting hand to stretch taut whatever bit of cloth you’re painting. Make thick lines:
The kit’s packing material is also a convenient pen stand:
This scarf was my first encounter with Tsukineko’s API. I’d assumed ink would spread willy-nilly, allowing me very little control, but got a great surprise. The ink stayed where I put it, it didn’t run! (I am utterly thrilled!)
However, that meant painting really thick lines was taking too long. I tried a fabric brush instead. Painting went quickly, and I discovered API is great with brushes. But use the pens if you prefer.
I left plenty of white space so that, next, I could put detail in it.
Detail: Use purple ink in a bullet tip for smaller swirls and sweeps. Then fill in more white space with even smaller swirls and sweeps, using blue ink in a pointed tip. If you want, sketch the detailing first with the Auto Fade Pen.
Don’t try to heat set API if it is soppy, but it needn’t dry completely. Cover the ironing board with a cloth. Ditto the scarf. Use a dry iron, hot as the fabric will allow (this scarf is 100% cotton), for approximately 2 minutes per side. Then let the scarf sit about a week to cure, after which it is washable. It is easy to make this circular scarf flat for ironing, by doubling it: Note photo below.
To heat fabric sufficiently for setting API, break the cloth down into segments a bit larger than the surface of your iron. Iron that segment for two minutes, keeping the iron moving (so you don’t burn the cloth). Repeat that process til that whole side of the cloth is ironed. Then do the same on the other side. In other words, as it was explained to me: Measure the segment to be ironed for two minutes as a bit bigger than your iron, which you move round and round, an inch to all sides for two minutes.
Clean brushes with soap and water. The disposable pens can be reused after being washed with soapy water.
If you’re last name isn’t “Picasso,” or you find fabric-painting intimidating, this is your project:
* API is easy to use.
* When worn, a circle scarf’s imperfections are hidden: A lot of the ink you apply becomes covered by folds.
* The way a circle scarf hangs on you requires sweeps of color and general impressions, not precision or exactingly “correct” designs.
* Since the scarf is forgiving of mistakes, it’s great for learning on, but still ends up a wonderful accessory.
* All your colorful sweeps and swirls make a scarf happy. It will thank you by looking pretty when you wear it.
Have fun! And here is my finished scarf, can you tell how happy it is feeling?
Start an #IndulgeInSelfCareBinge!
Max out on enough sleep, naps, healthy food, meditation, creative play, herb tea, visits with friends, fun, etc, not harmful overindulgences like junk food.
Spread the word, use the hashtag, let’s get ourselves and friends happily healthy.
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Can you indulge yourself a whole month? Try it, it’s like living in God’s lap!
Post here, on Twitter, and/or Facebook what way you will indulge yourself today.
Be my binge buddy. Each day for a month, I’ll post my self-care plan for the day, in a comment field below. Please post yours there too, every day, some days, or just one day, to support my binge in ways different than a post on Twitter and Facebook: What’s your self-care goal today?
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Want support from a shaman who imbeds herself in miracles, understands life’s practical demands, and successfully combines mysticism with practicality? Please make an appointment for a session.
I just finished making dandelion oil. This is a wonderful happy sunny event. Let me share my old herbal journal notes:
May 5, 2007: Put fresh dandelion blossoms in safflower oil, in crockpot for maybe five hours. (I forgot it there. It was a tiny tiny tiny bit roasted. Usually I do four hours max.) This is my first dandelion flower oil. Rubbed it on sore back, and it really helped. (Dear reader, I underlined “really” three times!) My back feels a lot better. (“Lot” was underlined three times.) … Just took bath, then covered whole body with dandelion flower oil. Body feels good. (“Good” underlined three times.) This oil = health. I’m in love with dandelion flowers. (I underlined love.)
Here is a blog from last spring, about dandelion: https://www.outlawbunny.com/2012/04/20/dandelion-blossoms/
This year, I infused the flowers in olive oil, which I prefer for healing.
For full instructions on making dandelion flower oil, check out Susun Weed’s book, Healing Wise.
Ok, I put off using my new batch of oil long enough. I am gonna go rub it on my feet now. My feet do not hurt. I just want them to be really happy.
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Disclaimer: I have no scientific basis for the above piece. It is not meant to prescribe, cure, blah blah blah. And what is good for me—e.g., my joints—may be the worse thing not only for your joints but also for your whole body. I’m no herbalist, can’t say what is safe for a given individual. I research herbs in terms of my own body and own contraindications (e.g., will a given herb mess with you because of a specific pharmaceutical med you are on?). Herbs may be natural but they are also powerful, and act differently on each person. So do your research. All that said, herbs have saved my life, make my life joyful, and are my close friends. I live immersed in them.
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Want support from a shaman who imbeds herself in miracles, understands life’s practical demands, and combines miracle with practicality successfully? Please make an appointment for a session.
Artistry, Marketing, Love is a seven week course about how you can:
* be a productive artist,
* sell your work without selling out,
* and do it all with self-love.
However you express your creativity—eg in the arts, as a spiritual healer, or an herbalist—this class is for you.
The class meets by phone. No computer or special equipment needed. Just dial your phone. We meet seven consecutive Tuesdays, 6:00 to 7:00 (EST), starting Tuesday May 14. Reserve Tuesday July 2, same time, for a makeup class in case I’m unavailable for one of the planned sessions.
Does my class sound unbelievable? A recent client went from a near standstill to consistently producing art, having a website, running an active Etsy shop, and winning national art contests. From her one and only experience with me—a one hour session!
I will address your specific concerns.
Do you think you are an exception? You can earn your living doing what you love.
Tuition is $250. You might pay long-distance charges, depending on your long-distance plan. They will appear on your phone bill. The event has a U.S. area code.
Every spiritual teacher promises to make a difference in your life. But I actually can. Have I proven worthy of your trust by facilitating a major breakthrough for you via a class or book? Sign up, let’s change your life more.
If you need more info, or want to discuss scholarship, partial scholarship, payment plan, or trade, call me 814-337-2490. No refunds. A few days before the first class, you receive event phone number and other details.
Does life too often keep you from doing what you love? Do you want the secrets of ethical marketing? Sign up.
Are you already a working artist (or working psychic, or working…) who wants more success or to be more productive? This class is for you too: Its principles and methods work for the inexperienced and experienced.
I already love you, I am extraordinarily skilled at my work, let’s do this.
I am so happy that if I don’t share, I am going to burst. I am excited bc not only do i get to adorn moi, but my art has really taken a leap forward.
For the first time in years, I was able to add a slew of gorgeous pieces to my wardrobe. Had great fun as a fantasy artist, making myself fey-touched clothing that is street wear instead of costume. I painted and/or dyed all of it, including items already in my closet, which got radically upcycled, yay!
I consciously created a wearable manifestation of the inner joy that deepened in me recently. I’ve experienced great ecstasy in my life, so hitting this new level means feeling high high high.
This happiness resulted from tres difficult inner work for a month or two, during which I bounced back and forth between painful breakthroughs and new capacities for joy, which had been blocked til said breakthroughs.
(Click on the smaller pics to see them unblurred and large.) The inner work was necessary to 1) teach the faerie shamanism class I just finished and 2) give a month-long spiritual transmission I did during that time. I’m not complaining, almost nothing makes me happier then being a spiritual guide. And no one in class or receiving the transmission was difficult. Rising to the occasion of truly serving simply requires that I always keep growing. Wheeeee! For one thing, amazing people bless me by being my students and clients; I want to be a teacher worthy of them. For another, I try to nail every single bit I do for them, because I believe it vital that, as much as possible, anything I give as a shaman be amazing and important.
And it just so happens that the past month or so required particularly painful, difficult growth.
Creating wardrobe helped fuel me through the growth. The painting, dyeing, and designing has been a transformative ritual. It was also part of the larger ritual that we (the people in the class and receiving the transmission, and myself) performed. (I look forward to giving them the url to this post.) I love how fabric art feeds me spiritually so that I can be the best possible shamanic guide for my clients. Especially since being a shamanic guide is my primary art form. Isn’t it awesome how allowing all one’s aspects to emerge and combine makes one whole?
Fabric painting as ritual should not be used to avoid honestly facing the pain of growth. Fabric magic can’t replace the daily spiritual disciplines that transform me, get me through hard times, or allow my gods to keep me empowered and on track ethically. But this recent fabric art has been an awesome additional tool for inner growth.
I made more items, some of which I’ll post soon, as part of a blog on clothing oil painting, and the rest of which are not done yet. In the meantime, scroll down for more photos of the wardrobes I already finished.
Thank you for the privilege of sharing my happiness with you.
What pain has dwelt in silence too long?
What muted scream of terror unheard?
What outrage ignored as, around you, life after life after life is devastated?
What pain in you? Find one such pain, right this moment.
Now, draw that pain into a different silence:
Draw it into the quiet of a mother’s loving embrace.
Draw that pain into the quiet still love of a gentle voice saying to you,
“Yes, you hurt.
You hurt because life is hurtful.
I honor your pain.
Do not shame yourself for your pain.”
Draw that pain into the quiet still love that is this moment.
Welcome your pain into the silence that is love.
Welcome your pain into your heart,
let no part of you stand apart,
rejected, mutated into “the other.”
Welcome your pain into your heart.
Instructions: 1) The fourth line says to find only one pain, because it is often best to work with just one pain throughout the ritual. Trying to deal with too much at once can be self-defeating. You can always apply the ritual to other pains other days. 2) However, when working with the pain you chose to focus on, other pains might come up, and need addressing right then and there. Welcome them into the loving silence. 3) Do each step that the poem designates, before moving onto the next step of the rite. Example: The first instruction is “Find one such pain, right this moment.” Do so before moving onto the next step, which is “Now, draw that pain into a different silence: Draw it into the quiet of a mother’s loving embrace.” 4) This is a powerful rite. You may need support after doing it. I provide professional shamanic support: https://www.outlawbunny.com/pastoral-counseling/
When I channel lessons and transmissions for others, I usually try to apply the material to my own life, too. Some shamanic lessons and transmissions (which are kind of one and the same) that I’ve been giving lately have been very effective in moving my own energy. That is not unusual, but this has been stronger even than usual. Massive shifts happened in me and caused such beauty and self-love. But then a major depression hit, like I have not had in ages. I think, and hope, it is a backlash of spirit, a healing crisis so that, when I get to the other side of it, I will be happier and fuller than ever. Today, I seem to be moving past the depression. I hope I am, depression sucks! I wrote this liturgy today, for myself. It helped both me and a depressed friend, so I share it here because I love you too.