Narnia, Faerie, and C.S.Lewis

Narnia, Faerie Magic, C.S.Lewis’s Visions, and His Prejudices—Francesca De Grandis

Narnia, Faerie Magic,
C.S.Lewis’s Visions, and His Prejudices

An earlier version of this was published in Eternal Haunted Summer

This essay explores Lewis’s remarkable visions, deadly prejudices, and how both relate to Faerie. I adore Narnia books. They changed my life for the better, in important ways. And Lewis’s prejudices in the books contributed to systemic oppression that nearly killed me. I am not attempting a comprehensive overview of all his bigotry and its relationship to Faerie. That would require an entire book.

Introduction: Theories, Revelations, and Poetry

This essay’s theories and opinions came from common sense, visions, and 75 years of traveling with the Fey Folk.

Humans have the innate ability to receive direct revelation instead of having to abide by supposed authorities.

Revelations differ. They should.

Respecting yours does not require disrespecting my own. I trust my personal gnosis, though never blindly, and state it unapologetically, without disclaimers. I support you to do the same.

Often, I can best express my theories through lyric that my Goddess, in Her aspect of Muse, kindly inspires.

A magic door appeared.
So did its key.
I went to Narnia on an adventure—a quest for power.

1) A Goddess of Door Hinges:
Magical Opportunities Abound

In Juno Covella—Perpetual Calendar Of The Fellowship of Isis by Lawrence Durdin-Robertson, Lawrence describes the Roman Goddess Carna as a “guardian of door hinges, i.e. of … the life of man.”

Lawrence’s description resonates with my belief that opportunities to use magic abound; they surround us every moment. The universe is magical, everything is Fey, we can always access power.

Even door hinges are enchanted. So a wardrobe can open into a Faerie realm.

C.S. Lewis’s mysticism allowed him to recognize magic in the commonplace. This insight is rare even among magicians. I suspect the recognition was in Lewis’s subconscious alone. Judging from his overall writings, Lewis viewed a magical wardrobe as a metaphor, other literary device, or whimsy to delight children. But I believe his cells knew the truth. They felt the magic in his books. They knew a mere wardrobe door could be a magical portal.

2) C.S. Lewis: Extraordinary Visions and Sexism

In his Narnia series, C.S. Lewis portrayed the White Witch as a megalomaniac tyrant. But I know Her personally. She is the Faery Queen, Who is kind and bestows power.

Lewis’s vision and sexism are at odds. In the Narnia adventures, his visions triumph more often than not. The books have a socially acceptable facade of Christianity; prejudices typical of institutionalized Christianity are disguised as virtues and philosophical thought. But the deceptive gloss does not hide the Faery King and Queen’s magic and love filling the texts. At heart, Lewis’s series is all heart.

I believe he channeled magic beyond his own knowing. His sexism and religious prejudices made him portray Narnia’s major villain as female and an enchantress: the White Witch. But he managed to channel many true Faerie mysteries in the Narnia series.

Unfortunately, that does not mitigate the enormous harm caused when his sexism and other prejudices held sway. Enumerating all those sections of the series and what they cost others is beyond the topic of this essay. But it’s vital to state that his prejudices had deadly consequences. Otherwise, I might be implying that they are less severe.

3) Irish Mysticism, the Faerie Faith, and Disassociation

C.S. Lewis, though known as an English literary figure, was born in Ireland and identified as Irish. My intuition and common sense told me that must be the case, once I read Narnia.

For one thing, I knew a few male Irish mystic poets. One was born and raised in Ireland. They were torn in half. On one side of the rift was their love of the Goddess and their DNA rooted in the old Faerie Faith. On the other side was a Christian upbringing that suppressed Fey longing and other passions for life.

This is not their analysis of themselves. This is mine, from watching their self-hatred including its subconscious aspects, recant of their visions, and abuse of women.

Here’s an example of one renunciation: One of these men wrote a lengthy piece outlining the meaning of a poem he had written. The analysis stripped away the poem’s meaning and passion.

His process of analysis killed his passion. In other words, he left his body, mystical awareness, and intuition behind, so that he could use his intellect alone to analyze the poem. This created a dissociated logic and a dissociated mystic.

The other poet, brilliant in his lyrics to the Faerie Queen, confessed to me that he loved gaslighting women. He was a therapist.

Not every male Irish mystic poet is disassociated. But it is common.

4) Fey-Touched Mysticism and Magic are Holy …
Only in a Christian

Though C.S. Lewis was clearly in touch with magic, he betrayed it. For example, he portrayed it as beautiful and loving when the lion Aslan—a male deity figure—performed spells. But magic was evil in the White Witch. Note the word Witch. The longstanding Christian tactic of villainizing magic unless it’s performed by a male—usually a male God or clergy—oppresses Fey-touched women and their power.

For decades, the Snow Queen has been in my pantheon. She is the Faery Queen in winter. She is the true White Witch. In Narnia, the White Witch curses the world with an eternal bitter winter. But the Snow Queen is known worldwide as benevolent, unlike C.S. Lewis’s cruel despot.

The Snow Queen has consistently been kind to me. She blesses me with Her magic, bestows Her power on me, and walks beside me in loving companionship.

C.S. Lewis’s evil queen opposes Christmas and Santa Claus. Santa Claus is in my pantheon. The Winter Queen is His loving consort. She and Santa grant my wishes. Santa Claus puts a bow on what I request and gives it to me, if it’s what I really need. They grant my wishes at Yule, but They fulfill my dreams the rest of the year too.

5) The Narnia Tale of Creation Vs a Faery Myth

C.S. Lewis’s Narnia mimics the Christian myth of creation. A Biblical God spoke into a void and thus His word caused all of creation. This story is an underpinning of Western culture and one of the most destructive myths of Western culture.

The Narnia creation myth is in The Magician’s Nephew, 1955. In it, God, in the form of the lion Aslan, speaks into a frightening, dark void and thereby constructs Narnia.

Both the Biblical and Narnia versions strip away all feminine creation. The womb is scary and foreign instead of beautiful and holy. It is merely a void to be filled. Women are merely tools for men to create children or whatever else they define in words.

I’ve written at length about the destructiveness of the Biblical myth and channeled a highly developed Fey alternative. But in brief:

No mere “word of God” was spoken into the void and thereby constructed the cosmos.

A cognizant, living Darkness Who is a Loving Goddess and has all power and potential created the entire universe.

Darkness is not an empty void. The darkness I see with my closed eyes is the Magna Mater—Great Mother Goddess. In Her are vast expanses of love and potential. She has the means to create everything. So mote it be!

Mind you, Narnia’s creation has beauty. I honor and magically draw on that beauty. Writing his creation myth, Lewis was in touch with magic—the wonderful gift that the Great Mother Goddess gives us.

6) The Spiritual Truths in C.S. Lewis’s Creation Myth

Gods, Goddesses, and other mythological beings manifest when Aslan creates Narnia. Some animals are given the ability to speak.

Then Aslan says, “I give you yourselves. … I give to you forever this land… I give you the woods, the fruits, the rivers. I give you the stars, and I give you myself.”

That is an incredible vision by a brilliant visionary. I interpret it as a Faery Witch, which might offer a different interpretation than C.S. Lewis’s vantage point would provide. Here is my understanding of the vision:

* We are given ourselves: Our Creator gave each human dominion over themself. No clergy can choose our fates, take away our rights to make our own moral decisions, or interfere with our relationships with the Divine.

* We are given God, our Creator: He is not a distant judgmental deity who runs the show whether we like it or not. He gives Himself fully to us because He loves us. He gives Himself to us by walking next to us every moment, helping us each step of the way, bestowing His power on us, and providing luminous companionship.

* We are forever given the land … the woods, the fruits, the rivers, the stars: Yes! I abhor the Christian myth of Adam and Eve being kicked out of the garden of Eden to toil in slavery and misery endlessly.

The Eden myth supports colonizer culture. Supposedly, if you’re a good Christian, you will labor miserably, throughout the day, until the end of your days, with very little show for it. The myth justifies oppressors reaping what others sow.

My Divine Mother would never kick me out of Her garden. Here are song lyrics I wrote about it years ago. I still sing it for students who need healing from colonizer culture:

Both day and night we are held by our Mother’s hands.
Her garden gates are open wide.
We live within Her land.
Her children, we are without shame.
She’ll always understand.
By day, we’re kissed by Her sunlight,
then sleep in Her dark healing night.

7) Acceptable “Morality”

Immediately after the gorgeous passage in which an endlessly generous God gives everything to His children, Lewis unfortunately adds a “moral” lecture. Aslan warns His children not to become like beasts. It’s as if Lewis thought he could only get away with his inspired visions if he followed them up with acceptably sour morality. Did he hope no one would attack his vision of freedom, autonomy, and bounty if he distracted them with a pompous lecture that returned the moment to Christian repressiveness? Or did he feel so uncomfortable with his vision that he had to distract himself?

8) Shamanism, Adversity, and the Faery Faith

In the Narnia adventures, siblings are sent to the country to escape bombings during World War II. These displaced children discover a magic portal into Narnia, where they go on a quest.

A core premise of ancient Shamanism is that crisis can be a crossroads at which we find power.

Kindly Fey Folk want to help people in times of hardship. So do magical beings in Narnia.

This is timely. Displaced emotionally, economically, or otherwise, we can ask the Faery Queen and King for a magical adventure that empowers us to overcome oppression and help all Gaia’s children live free.

Like the magical beings in Narnia, some Fey Folk help humans, and other Fey Folk sabotage humans. This is not the place to expand on the benevolent and malevolent inhabitants of Faerie realms. But it’s important to point out that both exist.

9) Coming Home from a Quest

When the protagonists Edmund and Lucy learn that they can never visit Narnia again, they are horrified. Aslan explains that it is time for them to get close to their own world.

A premise of Aslan’s dictate is that being thoroughly part of the mundane world means never returning to Fey-touched realms. I disagree. I repeatedly tell my Faerie Witch students that a Fey path combines feet on the ground with head in the clouds.

I do think that we have to constantly leave Fey realms to apply what we learn there to the mundane world. A human is both a magical and worldly creature. We cannot live in visions alone. We must apply them to serve Gaia and all Her children. Otherwise, we spiral down into a self-pitying “spiritual” abyss that we might mistake for noble sacrifice and transcendence. Applying visions must include mundane, practical, quantitative actions.

I also believe there are Fey realms that we are meant to visit only once or a few times. Visiting them more than that is dangerous. Narnia is one of those places.

I’ve been there and brought students with me, and now that is over.

But I still read the Narnia books, watch the movies, and enjoy beautiful memories of my own Narnia adventures.

Those memories are like the eastern sea water in The Chronicles of Narnia. It is not salty water, but fresh and pure. It nourishes beyond food. That nourishment is otherworldly in itself.

Mystical adventures and memories of visions are meant to nourish our spirits, long after a Fey vision or adventure ends. So mote it be!

Francesca De Grandis is the bestselling author of Be a Goddess!. She teaches long-distance classes about Faery Witchcraft. De Grandis is a bard, painter, and innovator. Her Goddess spirituality embraces both mysticism and practical magic. Stay informed: click here for her free newsletter

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Magic for What YOU Want: A Twelve-Week Ritual

Your heart’s desires are sacred.

Life has challenges.

Magic is real.

So here is effective, practical, relevant spell-work:

A Twelve-Week Ritual for YOUR Goal, with Francesca De Grandis

Reach the Goal You Choose

Begins August 2026

In our first meeting, each participant chooses their goal for the twelve weeks. You get to work toward a goal that is important to you. For example:
* prosperity
* romance
* starting a business
* soul-healing
* overcoming an awful problem
* creativity

If you can’t decide on a goal, I’ll help. For example, if too many things need to change for you to select a single goal, I will show you how to do it.

This is not a class. No need to take notes that you might have time to apply.

This is a ritual. It consists of one magical spell a week for twelve weeks. Each spell is a big step toward your goal. The spells combine automatically to create thorough magic that achieves success.

We do each spell together. I lead you through it, step by step. A beginner with no experience can do this.

Good chance you are a busy person who might miss a few weeks. However, the weeks you do attend make a profound difference. Each of the twelve spells stands on its own and, heck, might do the trick by itself. And the magic of whatever weeks you can attend weave together automatically to create big results.

Plus, if you miss a session, I’ll still do magic for you. More about this is below.

Shamanism Is the Opposite of Colonizer Culture

Oppressors insist that success requires pushing yourself until you are drained dry. No! Faerie Shamanism is the opposite of colonizer culture:

Each week’s ritual is powerful and gentle. You won’t need to exhaust yourself. Here’s why:

The Old Gods
Will Add Their Power to Our Rite

The Old Gods will lovingly give Their power to us during our rites. And it’s not a rough ride. Empowerment from Fey Gods is a lovely experience. For one thing, you are immersed in starlit Faerie magic. It is some of the Old Gods’ power surrounding you. For another, if you’re exhausted, Their Divine love replenishes you.

Love from the Old Gods
Can Accomplish Anything

So our spells can accomplish the “impossible.”

Miracles occur often in my events. Usually, there are at least vital improvements. Those tend to lay the ground for even bigger ones.

The rituals are suitable for complete beginners and adepts.

Also, You Receive:

1) Direct Spiritual Transmissions During Every Rite

I generate a beneficial field of energy. This talismanic presence conveys what one could call a direct spiritual transmissions.

The spiritual transmissions give you good luck with the goal you choose for our twelve weeks, overall luck in your life, protection, plus spiritual, magical, and worldly power. The transmissions also add to our weekly rituals’ power and richness.

Transmissions can boost hope and perseverance, even in situations where neither seems possible.

You don’t have to do anything to receive the transmissions. And their energy adapts to meet your needs.

2) Personalized Enchantment

Magic is personal, not like the estranged mechanistic world. I will channel material for each participant to help them overcome challenges and reach their goal. You don’t even need to tell me what’s going on with you.

3) One-on-One Mentoring

I’m available by phone for your questions or other concerns about the rituals.

You can even call if you want me to expand on part of a ritual that you found tantalizing.

4) Digital Book of Shadows Pages

These otherworldly documents can center you, boost your spirits, and otherwise enchant your life between our weekly rituals and after our twelve weeks.

The twelve-week ritual works splendidly, without the Book of Shadows pages. No need to even look at the pages if they would add too much to your plate. The Book of Shadows pages’ magic are a wonderful added resource, to use if you want. I offer them because the world can never have too much magic, and I love giving you as much as I can.

Every page includes my Shamanic art.

I painted the art for this post. The Book of Shadows’ art is crisp and clear. I reduced file sizes for this page to make it load quickly for you, but that blurs graphics sometimes.

Schedule

We meet on Sundays from 3:30 to 4:30 pm PST, for twelve consecutive weeks, starting August 2.

Reserve the usual hour on Sunday, October 25, for a makeup session in case I’m unavailable for a planned meeting.

How To Attend

Call the event phone number that you receive after enrolling. You do not need special technology.

Enrollment

The total cost is $300 a month, for three months. Your carrier might charge you for the calls.

Enrollment closes Wednesday July 29 at midnight and is limited to sixteen people.

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Francesca De Grandis is the best-selling author of Be a Goddess!. She provides Witchcraft classes and other Shamanic services, long-distance. Francesca developed Shamanic theories and rituals that have been a seminal influence on modern Paganism.

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Fairy Blessings on Your Entire Life and Whole Being

You don’t have to do everything on your own.

I will do the heavy lifting for you.

It will be real magic, practical magic, relevant magic:

Energy Work
for Everything You Need and Want
Over the Next Three Months

A Long Distance Blessing
of Your Entire Life and Whole Being

Three months of blessing ceremonies
performed for you
begin June 7, 2026

Sign up by midnight June 3, 2026

You don’t have to attend an event, meditate, or do anything else. I do the work for you.

Total cost: $200 a month covers a ceremony every week for three months.

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Shamanic Magic Tailored to You

My blessing ceremonies can also be called “direct spiritual transmissions.” However, they are unlike better-known spiritual transmissions. Here’s information about mine:

I’m a good-luck charm. I was born generating a beneficial field of energy. My Fey-touched mother trained me to apply this talismanic presence well. Its beneficial energy adapts to meet your physical, spiritual, and emotional needs, even when they change from moment to moment. Examples:
* the strength to persevere
* protection
* joy
* money
* soul-healing
* spiritual strength
* improved intuition
* practical insights
* romance
* career
* hope

You receive as many simultaneous blessings as you need.

The transmissions also give you good luck.

I don’t have to know what you need because the transmission’s energy transforms to suit your desires. I get out of its way.

Recipients usually see immediate substantial improvements. And then more come. After the three months, benefits tend to remain and snowball.

Powerful Mojo for Three Months

Given the state of the world, I want to do a lot of magic for people. Three months of weekly ceremonies create a lot of power.

Hope and Possibility

Some religious groups exclude and oppress you. The Old Religion is the opposite. It is inclusive. It frees you, empowers you, and lifts you up. That energy is in my transmissions. They help free your wild heart and open the way to the life that is your human right, a life of freedom, bounty, peace, and fulfillment.

No experience is needed to benefit from these blessing ceremonies.

Adepts are deeply impacted by my work.

Even if you’re a Shaman, you deserve a constant ally.

If you need more information, call me at the number below. Or call me if you need to discuss a scholarship, semi-scholarship, or trade. No refunds, but you may cancel your subscription at any time, to be blessed by every ceremony I’ve done for you up to that point.

Reviews

The days seem more meaningful, my time more useful, my attitude more positive. Great opportunities have come my way and sales are coming in (even with the shop closed).—Sandy

For the first time in ages, I feel like someone has my back.—Kathy Davis

It was so wonderful to realize that we don’t have to fight for everything – we can just agree to someone transmitting healing and joy to us. We can just open up to your gifts. It took a huge weight off my shoulders. It’s wonderful knowing that someone gently supports us whatever we are doing at the moment. I felt a burst of energy and positivity and am certainly in for the next transmission!—Robyn

I worked through moments of stress and found creative solutions. I feel capable and strong. … Thank you so much Francesca for being such an amazing ally.—Mary Rose

If you could compare me from last week to this week, you would swear I was a different person.—Arwen Professional Joy Seeker

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Francesca De Grandis 2024, photo by Susanne Kaspar

Francesca De Grandis is the best-selling author of Be a Goddess!. Her Goddess mysticism includes practical magic and a down-to-earth philosophy. She was raised in an ancient European Witchcraft tradition. This centuries-old Witchcraft is a multicultural Faerie Shamanism. The De Grandis family tradition is rooted in Strega practices (Italian Witchcraft), Celtic, African, and other Shamanism. She draws on De Grandis magic to live free, fight colonizer culture, and help you do the same.

Magic is not a substitute for psychiatric counseling or medical care. Participants are responsible for the consequences of their participation.

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Amidst All, Beauty and Calm Arrive

A Nine-Week Ritual:

Shamanism, Self-Healing,
Fascism, and Trauma—

Amidst All, Beauty and Calm Arrive

Please note, I use ceremony and ritual synonymously.

This ceremony will focus on:
* healing ourselves from the trauma that current fascism is causing
* and gaining power.

Oppressors lie when they insist that you cannot heal from trauma during it and have to wait until it ends.

Ancient Shamans knew otherwise. Experience taught them that Shamanic tools can heal trauma during a traumatic situation.

A psychologist agrees that healing trauma during crisis is possible.

Many—if not all—individuals have suffered their whole lives from fascism. So the ritual-healing will not ignore past traumas.

To expand on the above points:

Historically, Shamanic healing of trauma has been a cultural norm. Also, during trauma, Shamanism mitigates damage to one’s psyche and even heals it. These ancient ways have proved a means for my survival and wholeness during a crisis, every time. So I will lead you in similar methods, during the nine weeks.

Also, many traditional Shamans have discovered their traumas were otherworldly gates to magical and worldly power. A traumatized individual is in a specific state that Shamanic tools turn into an opportunity to become powerful. If they are powerful already, then they become more powerful than ever.

Since ancient times, Shamans have used even their worst traumas as irreplaceable opportunities to create power. They accomplished this by using Shamanic techniques.

My personal experiences showed me that Shamanic methods for using trauma as a gate to power works. So some of these methods will be included in our nine weeks.

I would never promise to “fix everything” in a nine-week ritual. Plus, too much transformational work all at once can buffet the psyche, causing more harm than good.

But this nine-week journey can cause life-changing shifts. Many individuals who went on short Shamanic journeys with me called the results miraculous. The brevity of the journey helps keep the process from being overwhelming.

To keep fighting the good fight, take care of our loved ones, and reach cherished goals, we need self-care.

Self-care is resistance.

Amidst all, beauty and calm arrive.

Every day, amidst all, beauty and calm arrive.
The potential for beauty and calm is in our atoms.

Shamanism invokes beauty and calm
so amidst all, beauty and calm arrive.

Old-Fashioned Magic
to Reach an Important Goal

Faerie Shamanism is practical. We will use some of the power we gain to help you reach an important goal of your choosing. In other words, each participant chooses a goal. For example, maintaining a good income, starting a new business, or awakening creativity. To be clear, the individual goals will be in addition to the nine-week goal of healing and empowerment. And you will gain far more power than what you apply toward your personal goal.

My De Grandis ancestors,
thank you for my Faerie Witch heritage
—a lineage of the Goddess’ love:

a down-to-earth heritage of power and joy
that free my wild, fierce heart.

More Magic

Magic In My Cauldron

In addition to our weekly ceremony, magic will simmer in my cauldron for you. It will be a spell to send you good luck, protection, and both mystical and worldly power. The spell also helps our rituals. For example, when I lead you in self-healing, it will be more powerful yet gentle.

Diana and Lucifer

Lucifer is an ancient Italian Deity. Hs is not the Christian devil.

Diana and Lucifer are the Italian Faerie Queen and King.

I will invoke Them for our rites because
* They helped ancient peasants fight oppression.
* They love rebels.
* Their power and Their love for each other are so great that the combination created all of existence.
* In Their love for us, They will lend that power to our ceremonies.
* I consider Them my loving Ancestors. Gods are our Ancestors. Diana and Lucifer are among mine.

How To Attend

Call the event phone number that you receive after enrolling. The group meets by teleconference. You do not need special technology.

Schedule

Rituals will be on Wednesdays, from 6:00 to 7:00 pm PST, starting March 25, and occur weekly for nine weeks.

Reserve the usual hour on Wednesday May 27 for a makeup session in case I’m unavailable for a planned meeting.

Enrollment

The total cost is $200 a month for two months. Your carrier might charge you for the calls.

Enroll securely through PayPal with the subscribe button below:





Phone me if you want to discuss a scholarship, semi-scholarship, trade, or payment plan other than the subscription, or if you have questions about the event. I do not give refunds.

A few days before our first meeting, you receive an email with the event phone number and other details.

Magic is transformative art. The Old Gods empower the fight for freedom. They love us. So They do everything They can to help us be happy. Faerie Shamanism is the exact opposite of colonizer culture. Joy is political. Joy is resistance.

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A Daily Pagan Reader

Sprinkling Faerie Dust on Breakfast:
A Daily Reader for Busy Parents and Their Children . . .
and for Any Way-Busy Person

This post is under construction. Please come back soon.

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Magic for Freedom

This article was first published in one of Anne Newkirk Niven’s 2014 or 2015 Pagan magazines.

Magic to Overcome Oppression
Power to the People

Magic to Overcome Oppression: Power to the People—Francesca De Grandis

I cast a circle of magic and welcome you into it.

I’m writing this while in a circle because I can discuss traditional Witchery only in a sacred space. This time-honored practice has proven its worth. Unless I experience magic while discussing it, my words are empty.

Feel my writing with your heart and intuition. Does it echo past lives?

This post is a personal, emotional, and philosophical outpouring, instead of exposition alone. Expect me to share, not attempt to prove. Even the limited aspect of traditional Witchery represented in this article is best understood through experiential lyrical mysticism. Instead of logical dissection, I prefer reveling in magic with you, weaving together all this essay’s topics, and discovering its threads woven into the web of life, glistening with star dust.

This post discusses a tenet of old-fashioned Witchcraft: One reason that the Gods endowed humans with magic is so we can free ourselves from oppression—classism, racism, or other forms. Many traditional Witches embrace this belief, such as Pagans I circled with in Europe. It was also accepted in the Shamanic family tradition in which I grew up.

High Magic VS Low Magic?

Systematic discrediting of magic has kept many people from using it to fight for their rights. This smear campaign has been so effective that many Pagans internalized the oppression by dividing magic into “High Magic” and “Low Magic.”

This is an unnecessary, untraditional, and disempowering distinction.

The following erroneous definitions from those who would keep us down are:

“High” Magic is defined as esoteric or mystical ritual.

“Low” Magic is that which fulfills one’s mundane goals—one’s needs and desires.

Low magic tends to be frowned upon as base and not spiritual. No! That is oppressive. Taking care of yourself—through mundane and magical means—is neither low nor base. Self-care is an important part of spirituality.

High and low magic are false distinctions. They are one vital whole. This idea is developed throughout this essay.

Goddess-Given Magic

My Goddess gave me magic for many reasons. One is to improve my mundane life, because I am Her beloved child. Like any good mother, She wants to see my needs met.

In that vein, magic is a Goddess-given tool to fight for my rights, as it was for ancient Witches.

I’m not suggesting greedy or cruel magic is okay. Magic is a tool. Like all tools, it should be used for good, not evil.

Let’s look at Aradia: Gospel of the Witches by Charles G. Leland to continue the discussion about magical freedom-fighting.

Aradia: Gospel of the Witches

(A wee side note: I am not bringing up Aradia to prove my opinions. Something being in a book doesn’t make it true. Some people debate whether Aradia is historically accurate, although I happen to think it is. I mention this eccentric book from the 1800s because it rings with beauty and depth that reveal the heart of Witchcraft as I know it. Mysticism takes priority over magic-suppressing false logic. The book’s passages on magic and freedom from oppression shift my cells. I want to convey a bit of that joyful empowerment.)

Part of Aradia’s immense resonance with rich Mysteries is one of its themes: The Goddess gave Witchcraft to the peasants as a tool to fight their oppressors; Witchcraft exists to set you free from both physical and spiritual tyranny.

The following quote from Aradia reveals the importance the text gives to peasants magically fighting for their rights: “Thou shalt bind the oppressor’s soul with power.” 1

As far as I know, Aradia contains the first printed version of The Charge of the Goddess. Let’s look at some of Aradia’s version. I will include preceding passages for context, to reveal that the Charge’s reference to freedom has a meaning that differs from modern Pagans’ usual interpretation:

“The true God the Father is not yours;
For I have come to sweep away the bad.
The men of evil, all will I destroy!

“Ye who are poor suffer with hunger keen,
And toil in wretchedness, and suffer too…
Ill the fate of all who do ye wrong!

“Now when Aradia had been taught…to work all Witchcraft, how to destroy the evil race of oppressors, she imparted it to her pupils and said unto them:

“…Whenever ye have need of anything…
Ye shall assemble…
She who fain would learn all sorcery…,
Then my mother will teach her…
And ye shall all be freed from slavery,
And so ye shall be free in everything;
And as the sign that ye are truly free,
Ye shall be naked in your rites.”

This passage conveys our modern understanding that the Goddess offers spiritual and sexual freedom. So it’s clear that some traditional Witches had this same wisdom. However, the passage firmly roots that esoteric and sensual freedom in the physical freedom of both personal safety and mundane self-care, which requires liberation from oppression.

Aradia recognizes no differentiation between High and Low Magic: When we take good care of ourselves on both the material and esoteric planes, we soon realize that the material is mystical.

Old-fashioned magic was always a tool to fight oppression. And it still can be.—Francesca De Grandis

What about Hexing?

Sitting in circle, freedom-fighting magic hits me so strongly that I remember it cannot be fully addressed in an essay. For one thing, it requires personal dialogue.

The power of freedom-fighting magic coils around me, making it plain that it would not be revealed through solely left-brain exposition and analysis in a theoretical overview. That approach is more suitable to academia than to an understanding of magic. So, I am touching on a few crucial aspects of magic for freedom here. This will imply layer after layer to the discerning reader.

One crucial aspect is hexes—magic intended to attack a specific target. Aradia exemplifies the old-fashioned Witchy wisdom that hexing is an honorable tool for redressing injustice. I am not a pacifist, so I am not against hexing. However, I do not seek battle; I fight only when and as needed. For example, I am often tempted to throw down a hex when I am emotionally overwrought. That would usually be a big mistake.

Hexing tends to be my last resort. Just as you can be injured easily when fighting physically, you are as likely to get badly hurt when you hex. Hexing is risky.

There are many ways to claim one’s rights. Spells for justice and protection are effective. In the mundane world, protests and lawsuits come to mind.

Throwing a proper hex is complex (as are many battle magics). A hex done improperly or when inappropriate costs the spell-caster and innocent bystanders great damage.

To show examples of hexes gone wrong, I will describe five instances in which a hex adds trouble instead of fixing a problem:

1) Often, hexes are reactions to imaginary threats. So, one might hex an innocent person, or someone who is annoying or inconvenient, but not dangerous. One of many possible damages from such a hex is that it might backfire and rebound against the spell-caster.

2) Other times, a minor menace exists but seems far greater to the threatened individual. If they think a hex is justified when it is not, good spirits might punish them.

3) Hexes made preemptively can be out of proportion. They have their place, but they are often thoughtlessly inhumane when they are unnecessary. Just as an unwarranted military drone strike outrages decent people, so an unnecessary hex should be odious to a magical practitioner and recognized as unjustified brutality.

4) Sometimes, executing a hex makes magicians subconsciously buy into the corrupt structure they hope to overcome: A system of dog-eat-dog scarcity. Subconsciously motivated, they perpetuate this societal atrocity. The culture of hate (or deadly indifference) for anyone outside one’s tribe (however tribe is defined) is fostered, which is not good for anyone.

Hexes are excellent tools, if thoughtful discretion allows alternatives.

Here is one alternative. Innate goodness and endless potential flow through all the fibers of existence and the human spirit. We can draw on those loving sources of abundance in cooperation with other people, instead of fighting with each other in a model of scarcity and hate.

5) A hex executed sloppily or in haste can rebound back to its maker.

I do not teach hexes publicly. Every situation is different and must be dealt with in great detail for a hex to be safe and effective. I mention hexes here for two reasons. The first is to help you feel empowered about fighting for your rights magically. There is too much shaming about using magic to take care of ourselves. Hexing is often portrayed as a selfish, petty, mean-spirited witch throwing a tantrum, when it is actually a powerful tool that can be used ethically.

Yes, hexing can be tantrum-driven, petty-minded, selfish, or mean-spirited, but that is an improper hexing, as opposed to your inherent right as a human to be a magical warrior!

Here’s the second reason I discuss hexes here with some detail: We humans tend to swing from one extreme to another. Going from no magical self-defense to careless or ruthless hexes is one such swing. It does not embody the magical freedom-fighting I advocate. Instead, as implied above, the swing further traps oneself and others in an oppressive system.

What if I Need Magical Help?

The Slander of Grassroots Pagan Ministers
Working on the Front Lines

The defamation and persecution of Witches has helped keep oppressed people from fighting back for millennia. This attempt to restrain us from using magic is part of a long history of class, racial, gender, and other oppression.

A notable example—even with the growth of the modern Pagan movement—is the belittlement of occult shop psychics, many of whom are legitimate grassroots ministers helping blue-collar people, people of color, and other disenfranchised individuals.

There is a long lineage of nearly invisible ministers working as occult-shop psychics, root doctors, Southern Spiritualists, and in other down-to-earth magical roles. These ministers practice within the framework of traditional Witchcraft’s fight for freedom.

Some Pagans promulgate the belief (commonplace in mainstream Paganism) that such pragmatic grassroots workers are frauds or are prostituting their psychic abilities by receiving payment for their work.

When the disrespect stems from ignorance, it is relatively easy to remedy. But the origin of the disrespect was classism and other “isms.” Oppressors concocted a lie to keep disenfranchised groups from claiming their power. This is harder to change.

Many Pagans insist they wouldn’t “dirty their hands” by doing readings (or, heavens! spell-casting) for money. Some individuals speak like this until they learn better. But the rest? The majority of people espousing this belief are building wealth in careers that foster systemic oppression. Their supposed moral high ground is disguised classism, racism, etc. (I differentiate between them and the individuals working under them—earning far less—because it’s the only way to keep food on the table.)

If magic-workers were in it for the money only, they’d choose other work. Most of them are on the front lines every day, counseling battered wives, runaways, and others in crisis. They empower their clients by doing spell work for them. Hard-working, ethical psychics are as worthy of their wage as any other specialist.

Even many Pagans do not know about the longstanding tradition of otherworldly spiritual advisors who quietly aid disenfranchised people. These ministers work to be of service, not for national praise.

Being paid allows them to serve community full-time and work for free when appropriate. And their practice seats them all day long in the company of the Gods, who provide earthy spiritual joy.

I feel blessed: I have been a part of this grassroots oral tradition for decades. Let me tell you a story, to make a point:

Many years ago, I had been guiding folks in a private practice, mostly by referral. Then I started working as a spiritual counselor in an occult shop. Suddenly I was on the front lines to a degree I had not been previously. People came for a consult because their daughter had died; or their 14-year-old son had gotten somebody pregnant; or their husband beat them.

After my first shocking day, I went home and threw out all my lofty New Age
abstractions. I threw out my Celtic cross spread, because it requires a
lengthy session. (A lot of the readings were only ten minutes long. After that my boss pressed the buzzer: Time’s up!)

I sat there, inventing very fast Tarot spreads that would tune me into the heart of a client’s issue(s) and the essence of the advice that they needed. I compiled a list of community resources, such as women’s shelters and teen crisis counselors. I honed my psychic skills so that I’d sense a client’s needs stat—remember, ten-minute sessions. (I was in the psychic’s equivalent of an intern’s training in an emergency ward.)

In other words, I had become a minister in the trenches.

I still am, decades later. That does not mean all my work was, or is, with trauma survivors. I spend a lot of time helping with more “everyday” concerns, such as creativity or marketing.

But all my work is on the frontlines because it’s down-to-earth support instead of approaches that serve an elite and suppress everyone else, which is one of the points of my story:

Who offers practical magic and approaches clients’ issues with Shamanic (aka “Witchy”) tools? Usually, it is the old-fashioned Witchy psychic, root doctor, Voodoo priestess, etc., who is often frowned upon, even in the Pagan community.

I am proud to be among these practitioners. I offer psychic readings, cast spells for whatever you want and need, and perform energy clearing of your home or other space.

“Respectable” modern Shamanic counseling and Pagan pastoral counseling tend to be based on psychological and Christian models. They are important, save lives, and counter oppression. They might also exemplify the fight for freedom. However, they are granted a legitimacy denied grassroots magical practitioners. 2

The defamation of Witches has helped keep oppressed communities from magically fighting back for millennia. A notable example is the belittlement of occult shop psychics, many of whom are legitimate grassroots ministers.—Francesca De Grandis

Here is another reason that the grassroots oral tradition of Pagan ministry remains nearly invisible. It tends to disappear as soon as anthropologists or other academics arrive. Academia is largely based in upper-class sensibilities, which create a mental and verbal framework in which oppression and remedies for it cannot be expressed.

Also, oral traditions can only be oral. They are as evanescent as the morning mist and fade as soon as you try to write down certain of their methods and underlying techniques.

For example, often its methodologies and principles (the macro) must be conveyed through the micro (the on-the-ground moment). The micro is adapted moment after moment, to each teacher and student, each practitioner and client, and each particular moment, by using intuition and common sense. Study, experience, and creativity also bring Shamanic wisdoms and rites that are necessary tools to make adaptations. This cannot be accurately represented through overviews and theories. When writing, I am not teaching my oral tradition.

The Whole World Consists of Magic

To understand the kind of magical freedom-fighting that I’m trying to convey in this article, understanding a bit more about traditional magic as a whole is important.

The following analogy provides a glimpse:

At first, a potpourri’s ingredients are distinctly separate from each other. There might be flowers, leaves, spices, essential oils, and a fixative. Once mixed, their combined scent evokes strong feelings and ideas. Just so, the rich magical world of traditional Witchcraft is a creative, lyrical potpourri–individual elements coming together into a sensory-rich blend that invokes Gods, miracles, and ecstasy. The blend is far more than the sum of its parts. Elements were blended by the art of witchcraft and the magic of the now. When you experience that, you meet the rich scope of traditional Witchery. That is why this article includes a potpourri of musings on the same topic and related ones.

The way to learn traditional craft at depth is not from written materials, but through personal study with a teacher in oral lessons. I am available for that. My newsletter will let you know about upcoming classes.

My childhood illustrates more about traditional craft as a whole. Born into an Italian Shamanic line that was previously in Celtic countries (talk about eclectic!), I learned magic con leche. So it was not magic as some people think of it: A separate, distinct part of existence or a field of study, academic or otherwise.

Instead, awareness of a magical world was ingrained into me, atom by atom, and into my everyday existence. So today, I experience all of existence as innately magical.

We needn’t choose between High or Low Magic, but can apply magic to any part of life, since magic is already a part of it.

Important aside: Saying that the entire world is magic does not mean I’m burying my head in the sand about evil. Some of the magic is good, some is bad. I choose the good magic. I fight, ignore, run past, or otherwise try to not be subjected to the bad.

In Closing: Multifaceted Magic

Witchcraft means different things to different people. It means endlessly different things to me. I experience it as a multifaceted lifestyle, one part of which is magically freeing oneself and others from oppression. There are many other parts. For example:

To me, magic is surrendering to a flow of beauty that encompasses me with its love. Magic is tuning into the season and celebrating it. Magic is feeding my Gods the power They need to turn the YearWheel. Magic is using a teaspoon as a wand, and stirring healing into a cup of tea before I drink it. Magic is the connection I feel with my students when we walk between the stars together. Magic is experiencing the joy of all these things and many more.

But unless magic is used to overcome oppression, some people will never get to have that joy.

There are many other beautiful aspects of traditional Witchery. It is not limited to the glimpses herein. But I hope this essay has loved your longing for star-drenched magic.

The circle is open. Go with freedom. Merry part and merry meet again.

Endnotes

1) I don’t agree with everything in Aradia, nor do I consider it infallible. For example, its passage “When a priest shall do you injury by his benedictions, ye shall do to him double the harm” is not necessarily good advice. I included passages with which I disagree for context.

Fighting for rights aside, I highly recommend Aradia. It cannot replace oral tradition, but it is as close as print can get to old-fashioned Witchcraft, in all its beauty, depth, mystery, ferocity, and inner strength.

2) Just as you would ask for recommendations for a plumber, electrician, or other skilled professional, it makes sense to ask around if you are looking to hire someone to do divination or a magical working for you. Avoid being credulous, gullible, or falling prey to grifters and con artists. Use your intuition and common sense. The same goes for seeking Pagan ministry that excludes magic to closely follow Christian or psychological models.

Francesca De Grandis is the bestselling author of Be a Goddess!. Now she is publishing less to focus on oral tradition: Long-distance Witchcraft classes, psychic readings, and other services. Fifty years as a full-time community Shaman inform her work. Francesca is a mystic whose Goddess spirituality combines otherworldly travel, practical magic, and down-to-earth wisdom. De Grandis developed Shamanic theories, rituals, and worldviews that have been a seminal influence on modern Paganism. Her home is ecstatic paradox.

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Enchanted Radio Flyer Wagon

A painting of a Radio Flyer wagon. It holds a hat, mandolin, cup of tea, plus apples and books. A birthday cake with one candle and a book titled “Radio Flyer” are on the ground

I am committed to life’s adventures. Everything I need for them is in the little red wagon in my above painting. And, look, the painting shows my road ahead, oh, the road ahead!

Here’s how the picture came about:

A Magical Red Wagon

A friend bought a wagon to haul books and art supplies from her car to the classroom in which she teaches.

Her wagon is very modern and grown-up. It is black canvas on a metal frame and folds up to fit in her car.

However, when she told me about it, the word wagon made me picture the wagons children had in my youth: A Radio Flyer. The image included a gleeful child pulling a red wagon.

This idea of sweet, childlike delight kept returning.

My friend’s enthusiasm about her new, very practical, grown-up tool was also childlike. Isn’t it wonderful to take delight in life’s little pleasures? They can appear wondrous. They add the magic of whimsy to my day.

I had to paint a picture.

Art helps me go on adventures. Here’s how:

Whimsy, Fun, and Magic Art

Whimsy, fun, and art are magic.

Whimsy, fun, and art are talismans:
They are lucky charms to make a good life,
amulets to overcome serious problems,
and talismans to wrap me in Divine love from Faerie Gods.
With all that, I have what I need for any adventure.

Whimsy, fun, and art help me embody my motto, Choose joy. Express yourself. Serve community. Trying to embody that motto is the best adventure I know.

The Fey Folk personify whimsy. No wonder I love Fey companionship.

Adventures can happen in the mundane or magical realm. I want to discuss otherworldly adventures. Read on.

Doors into Faerie Worlds
and an Enchanted Radio Flyer Wagon

Whimsy, fun, and art are doorways into Faerie worlds.

My magic wagon has everything I need for my next magical adventure:

* A magic hat that makes me invisible and is a talisman for good luck. I like being an invisible Faerie Witch sometimes.

* A cup of tea blessed by Fey Gods. The cup never empties. Its tea gives me spiritual and physical health.

* Magic apples from the Tree of Life. They give me power, insight, and joy.

* A book about the Radio Flyer wagon. It is an instruction manual in case the wagon breaks down in the other world. I am a practical Witch.

* A picture book of Art Deco masterpieces. Art is magic.

* My mandolin. Music is magic. When you express yourself, you choose joy and serve community. I enjoy making music for myself. And this music is magic that heals the Gods. I hope I will also get to make music for Faeries or other fellow travelers.

The cake next to the wagon has one candle to celebrate the birth of the universe, when all things were created. All things are one, so there’s one candle. I’ll eat a slice of the cake when I need to remember I’m part of the larger whole and it is part of me.

I will put a magic circle around the birthday cake before placing it in the wagon. The circle will protect the cake from getting squashed along the road. The magic circle will also keep the candle flame from being doused or setting my possessions on fire. I love believing in the impossible. And believing in the impossible is necessary for successful adventures, both worldly and otherworldly.

* Faerie Witch magic books. Those books came from my mind. Their magic spells remain in my memory, ready when needed to bless, guide, and protect me. The rituals help me to stay connected to the Gods no matter what and manifest my heart’s desires.

The magic books hold all wisdom and power. I surely cannot remember to add everything I will need in my cart. But when something is missing, it’ll be in the magic books. All wisdom and power is in each of us. Though I wrote these books, their magic is in all beings.

More Amulets and Other Tools
for Journeys in Faerie Worlds

Am I missing anything? Perhaps something else is needed to do practical spells during my magic adventure? Tell me in the comment field below. Ditto, if you want to find and share answers to my next questions.

Is something in the painting unseen, tucked behind the wagon’s other contents? If you suspect there is a hidden good luck charm, Druid’s stone, talisman to overcome awful problems, or other hidden magical tool, please tell me, so I can use it on my journey. Or is there a hidden practical tool that I might need for a mundane purpose?

If you went to a magic world, what would you need to bring that is not in my magic wagon?

I said that all knowledge and power are within, but I still ask friends what they think I might need. Here’s why: We may have everything within us, but that doesn’t mean we can access it. Power is a communal effort, instead of always a solitary quest. So I am open to suggestions.

Also, I ask you what you’d need in case it gives you an opportunity to delve inside for power you haven’t recognized in yourself, or have been forgetting to use.

I wish you could see better copies of the paintings. I reduced them so this page doesn’t take too long for you to load. But I am grateful because I get to use high-quality versions in handouts for my Witch classes. So mote it be!

A painting of a mandolin. Its turning pegs are flowers, and fanciful scrolls decorate its body

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Kitchen Magic, Faerie Witchcraft, Herbs, and Beauty

Kitchen Magic, Faerie Witchcraft,
Herbs, and Beauty

Beauty Is Practical Magic

Beauty in everyday items enchants them and blesses the home.

Art as Talismans

My goal as a painter is to create art pieces that are also talismans.

How to Make Magic Art

There are many parts to creating art pieces that are talismans. Two are especially relevant to this post:

1) The act of creating beauty invokes magic. I am not talking about beauty that is measured by sexist, classist, or other ridiculous standards. Beauty comes from the heart.

And art doesn’t have to be expensive to be beautiful. A child’s drawing can be gorgeous in its sincerity.

Art doesn’t have to be perfect. Far from it. I have a high standard for my art, but I love anyone’s work if it comes from their heart.

2) I pour magic into my art. I use different methods with every piece. Trying to go with the flow is one of those methods. When I try to go with the flow, magic envelops me and enchants whatever I am doing. Two examples of going with the flow: If painting a piece will take me years, I will do that. Or, if I come up with a simple design only, I accept that as exactly what is needed, instead of assuming an elaborate painting would be better.

Making Beautiful, Magical, Everyday Objects

My art ornaments my newsletters, blogs, and books, to bless the work.

For newsletters and blogs, I have to reduce my art to small files, which are not the best quality reproductions of the work. But I don’t let perfectionism keep me from adding what beauty I can to my interactions. Perfectionism does not encourage magic.

And I do get to share crisp, detailed reproductions of my art in my digital books, as well as in handouts for the Faerie Witch classes I teach.

Enchanted Herb Labels

Herbs for magic, herbs for physical health, herbs for culinary purposes, … I love herbs.

I love herb labels. I look for any opportunity to adorn everyday objects. Art fills my home. Beauty blesses my home, kitchen magic, and everything else that occurs where I live. Labeling jars of herbs is another chance to add beauty to my home. The magic I pour into the art for the labels adds more blessings.

How to Make Enchanted Herb Labels

1) When drawing the labels, don’t be a perfectionist. Faeries love all sincere attempts at art. Do what you can, even if you only have a few minutes, and Faeries will bless you with good luck.

For example, I’m good at painting, but I’m not good at lining up paintings in a digital file. The labels in the photo at the top of the page are all in one digital file. I eyeballed the layout. The paintings may not be exactly lined up with each other. That makes them harder to cut precisely. But they look nice even if not cut perfectly. And so I might find a Faerie tap-dancing on top of my herb jars.

2) Go with the flow by using what is on hand. For example, maybe you have cardstock that is a pretty color. No need to paint; Use it as is. Or plain white cardstock can look lovely if you have pretty stickers to put on it.

3) Part of going with the flow and using what’s on hand could be looking through your old artwork to see if any of it is useful. My art for the above labels is mostly from 2025. It comes from various projects, ranging from Witch class handouts to pieces drawn for my personal use.

If you look at the above labels, you’ll see a real variety of pictures. It’s fun for me to see different styles on my herb jars.

I digitally reduced each painting to label size. When reduced a lot, details can get lost, and lines can get fuzzy. But the labels are pretty anyway and are a happy magic for my kitchen cupboard. So don’t be a perfectionist when looking through your art for what would be suitable.

4) This is a practical tip: Do not glue herb labels to jars. Glue is hard to wash off later. Instead, I punch a hole in the corner of a tag, string a pretty cord through the hole, write the name of an herb on the back of the card, and tie the cord around the jar that has that herb.

Free Talismans and Rituals

My newsletters announce free talismans. For example, I sent a Faerie Witch newsletter offering a free, high-quality, digital file of the labels in the above photo. Then newsletter subscribers can print the labels on card stock to make their own labels.

The newsletters also announce free monthly rituals. The rituals are on teleconferences (group phone calls). Magic transcends time and space so, during phone calls, we can walk between the stars together. So much magic happens!

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Magic is transformative art and political resistance. The Old Gods empower the fight for freedom. Faerie Shamanism is the exact opposite of colonizer culture. Joy is political. Joy is resistance. Choose joy. Express yourself. Serve community. —Francesca De Grandis, bestselling author of Be a Goddess. Shamanic guide teaching effective, practical magic. Faerie bard & painter

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Magic Fun for Eight Weeks Starts Dec 2025

Weekly Magic Fun
that Transforms You and Your Life: Come to Parties in the Faerie Realm

Straight-Ahead Fun that Transforms You and Your Life

Parties in the Faerie Realm Begin December 9.

Every week will be a different enchanted gala.

How It Will Work:

From Beginning to End, a Party Can Be Faerie Magic

During our first meeting, I’ll explain how an entire party can be Faerie magic. The main thing to know is:

Each week’s party will be a guided journey in the Fey realm. For example:
* A tea party with Faerie Gods
* A feral cabaret where wild spirits entertain us
* A flight with Dragons

And when the Fey Folk put on a Renaissance Faire, you know it’s going to be a fabulous fantasy adventure. That will be one of our magic fetes.

The other thing to know now: I provide ecstatic experiences that are life-changing. Mind you, I also lead people through the hard work of transformation. But change doesn’t always have to be difficult. Revelry can be equally transformative. This event is sacred play that magically improves your life, in whatever ways you need: Expect longed-for changes, inside and out.

To keep fighting the good fight, taking care of our loved ones, and reaching cherished goals, we need fun.

We need sacred fun. The original drama was ritual, with good reason. Sacred entertainment connects us to the Divine, rearranges our psyches, and shifts our entire lives. It is our human heritage. It is our heritage as magical beings. It is like life’s blood. So I’m offering magic parties.

Decades in the entertainment business taught me skills for producing entertaining events. I will combine that expertise with Shamanic techniques to create our sacred revelry. Its light-hearted pleasure will, paradoxically, reach Shamanic depths. Empowering fun!

Old-Fashioned Wishes
for Whatever You Want

Making wishes is also our heritage. Along with the transformative nature of every party, each one will include a special portion in which I lead you in an old-fashioned wish for whatever you desire. Old-style witchery works.

My De Grandis ancestors,
thank you for my Faerie Witch heritage
—a lineage of the Goddess’ love:

a down-to-earth heritage of power and joy
that free my wild, fierce heart.

Fun Is Practical Magic

The Tlingits are an indigenous tribe of the northwest. Forgive me if I remember Malcolm Margolin’s writing about them incorrectly: In ancient times, more than half of the tribe’s winter schedule was filled with ritual and social engagements, as opposed to seasons in which the amount of work almost excluded ritual and social interactions.

I don’t know if the modern world allows the Tlingit their old winter ways. It’s near impossible for almost anyone now. That’s terrible. Our very cells need sacred fun. And all the more this time of year.

It is foreign to how most people live now. Most individuals don’t realize how much they need ongoing winter festivities until they experience the difference it makes.

Most of us can’t have the amount of winter fun some ancient peoples had. However, once a week makes a huge difference. So I’m offering sacred revelry weekly.

Though I have experienced the difference, I needed a reminder: I was exhausted after a challenging few weeks. I hadn’t socialized during them. Then a friend asked me to go out the next night. I received her email late at night and was too brain-dead to respond coherently. But I wrote back, “I’m too exhausted to write coherently but, yes, let’s go.”

As soon as I sent that email, I was filled with energy. The next evening, I was still spent yet paradoxically energized. I somehow pushed myself to the social event. It healed me from those rough couple of weeks.

We need a lot of tribal fun to avoid the winter blahs. There’s a human need for magic parties. Yay, I am saying we need parties! Fun is practical.

More Magic

In addition to our sacred revelry, magic will simmer in my cauldron for you: A spell for good luck, protection, and both mystical and worldly power.

How To Attend

Call the event phone number that you receive after enrolling. The group meets by teleconference. No special technology is needed.

Schedule

There will be eight parties, on Tuesdays from 6:00 to 7:00 pm PST, starting December 9 and going through February 10.

Reserve the usual hour on Tuesday Feb 17 for a makeup session in case I’m unavailable for a planned meeting.

Our adventures will occur on consecutive weeks except we’ll skip December 23 and 30 (Christmas and New Year’s weeks).

Enrollment

The total cost is $200 a month for two months. Your carrier might charge you for the calls.

I’m offering these rituals at my usual price despite my additional work:

I’ve developed eight rituals that are also parties. Creating Shamanic rituals or fun events takes work. Developing events that are both takes even more work. But I’m proud of my plans for light-hearted fun that is also a profound Shamanic experience.

Your cost is also lower than the price of eight tickets for gala affairs on the mundane plane. And you won’t have to leave home, drive, or do any preparation. I’ll have everything ready for you in the magical realms. Being your otherworldly hostess in Faerie will fill my heart.

Enrollment ends midnight December 3.

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A Safety Guide for Empaths

A Safety Guide for Empaths:

How to Protect Yourself from
Toxic Energy & Emotional Overload

This post is an in-depth guide for empaths. And if you’d like to contribute ideas, add them in the comments below the post. Thank you.

Table of Contents

If Table of Contents links don’t work, scroll down the page for any information.

What Is An Empath?

The Challenges of an Empath

Wearing a Fluorite Necklace as a Shield

Where I Learned
that Fluorite Necklaces Protect Empaths

Attribution Makes Magic Work

Protection for Empaths Is Important

Proof that Fluorite Necklaces Protect Empaths

Sensitivity Is a Gift from the Divine

An Affirmation for Empaths

An Abundance of Emotions

More Situations That Are Hard for Empaths

Large Gatherings

Environments that Are Stressful for Everyone

Toxic Environments

Healthy Work Environments that Can Cause Overload

Empaths Need Boundaries

Effective Boundaries

Combining Magical and Worldly Boundaries

More about the Complexity of Boundaries

Internalizing Someone Else’s Energy to Heal Them

Why I Wear a Fluorite Necklace Every Day

Fluorite’s Energy Is Sweet and Harmonious

Fluorite Does Not Shut Down All My Empathy

Why I Own Fluorite Bracelets

Holiday Stress and Empaths

Where to Buy Your Fluorite Necklace

Your Link and Coupon Code for a 20% Discount!

Otter Spirit

Unboxing My Otter Spirit Package

The Fairy Gods Adore You


What Is An Empath?

An empath is an individual who experiences within themself someone else’s emotions—sadness, anger, joy, etc.,—and other energies. Examples of other energies are physical pain, spiritual openness to life’s beauty, and the lovely physical rush that finishing an important project brings.

An empath is also called a sensitive. Sensitivity is a wonderful ability. More about the upsides of empathic power momentarily. But first:

The Challenges of an Empath

Sometimes, empaths are burdened by other people’s energy. Experiencing someone else’s pain or anger can be too much. I’ll use anger as an example:

An angry person in the presence of an unprotected empath might become inexplicably calm, while the empath finds themself suddenly furious for no apparent reason. The empath has taken on the other person’s anger.

Empaths can become overwhelmed in large crowds or near someone who’s in crisis. Even an interaction on the phone might flood an empath with emotions and other energy.

Wearing a Fluorite Necklace as a Shield

A fluorite necklace protects empaths by shutting down the empathy, to a more comfortable degree.

It can’t be a fluorite pendant. Fluorite beads must be strung close together, all around the neck. Think of a strand of pearls, with no space between them, except for a knot’s worth. Use chips, beautiful carved fluorite, or any other fluorite beads.

To cleanse the necklace’s energy, put it in the freezer for fifteen minutes.

Where I Learned
that Fluorite Necklaces Protect Empaths

Decades ago, my friend Uma channeled a lot of the above material about empaths, fluorite, and necklaces. I added my theories. For example, I contributed the idea of taking on someone else’s energy and physical experiences as opposed to only their emotions. I also changed the wording somewhat.

Uma’s material entered common lore, without being attributed to her. This is unfortunate. Uma owned a San Francisco occult shop called Tools of Magic. She channeled a great deal of remarkable magic that was passed down. Her shop was a school, haven, and launching pad for many Pagans. She cleared the path for today’s Paganism. Uma, after all you accomplished, rest in peace.

Attribution Makes Magic Work

Taking other people’s work without their permission is oppression. Power to the people means individuals have the right to decide what is done with the fruits of their labor. This includes their ideas.

Honoring sources, on the other hand, makes magic work. I honor my sources by passing on material only with permission and attributing the source. My fluorite necklace works. Yaya!

If you would like to share this post’s material, in part or in whole, I’d love you to share the link to this essay (instead of copy and pasting the material). That honors my decades of developing the article’s comprehensive theories on empaths. If you want to share this material in another way, please contact me, so we can discuss it. Thank you!

Protection for Empaths Is Important

The majority of people attracted to my work are empaths. I’ve given all the above information to my students for decades. It is even more important lately.

Luckily, I’ve had more thoughts on it. Plus, I have more resources for you. So let’s go:

Proof that Fluorite Necklaces Protect Empaths

One of the most important things I can tell you in this blog is to wear a fluorite necklace. So I will talk about it a lot.

I trust anecdotal evidence. A large number of my students and I saw significant improvements in our quality of life after we began consistently wearing fluorite necklaces.

Sensitivity Is a Gift from the Divine

Sensitivity is beautiful. But the trait is often condemned. For example, the remark You’re so sensitive is usually an insult.

The phrase has been used repeatedly to shame sensitives for a trait they deserve to take pride in.

Generally speaking, too much sensitivity does not exist. The idea of it, exceptions aside, is almost always oppressive and hurts not only empaths but also everyone else. I can’t imagine a situation in which You’re so sensitive is an accurate description or useful response. For example, let’s say someone’s reaction is disproportionate to the situation at hand. Perhaps they are subconsciously responding to a traumatic situation in their past. They are having an appropriate response to previous trauma, need healing, and You’re so sensitive will only shame them and interfere with healing. Or let’s say someone intentionally overreacts so they have a justification to lash out. (This intention might be subconscious.) You’re so sensitive won’t stop the abuse.

An Affirmation for Empaths:

I am proud of being so sensitive.
Sensitivity is a gift from the Divine.
Empathy is wise, practical, and powerful.
I am proud of being so sensitive.

Your sensitivity is a gift to you and those around you. Some empaths experience the following positive aspects of sensitivity:

Sensing what other people feel makes someone more likely to be compassionate.

Empaths are aware of what’s beneath the surface. So they can boost a person’s confidence by praising them for wonderful traits that are not obvious. Sensing more than someone’s facade also increases awareness of danger and quickens responses to people’s needs.

Unfortunately, most empaths have been penalized for sensitivity. For one thing, they are subjected to society’s opinion that sensitivity is a foolish, trifling women’s delusion. So it is easy to invalidate or repress your ability. Then, you might not have the experiences in my above examples. For help drawing on your otherworldly awareness, contact me for spiritual counseling, Pagan style. I also call this Shamanic counseling, pastoral counseling, or a psychic reading because all these terms are accurate.

Empathy is wise, practical, powerful, and not gender specific. I only gave two examples of its importance. There are many more. I won’t go into them here because this blog focuses on protecting empaths. However, when we are protected, we can use our empathy better.

An Abundance of Emotions

If you are a sensitive, experiencing someone else’s abundance of emotions can be too intense. Their ability to feel deeply is wonderful. I want to be around people like that. They’re delightful!

I’m like them. I have an abundance of my own feelings. Theirs on top of mine can be too much to feel sometimes. So I shield myself as an empath.

Someone’s abundance of feelings might be happy ones—joy, excitement, celebration, connectivity, etc. Or it might consist of disparate emotions that range from anger to joy, and from grief to celebration. In either case, being around that individual can be overwhelming and otherwise distressing for an empath. The same goes for a group’s range of emotions, even happy ones.

As a talisman, the necklace shields your empathy so you stop experiencing so much of what other people are going through. I choose to surround myself with people who feel deeply, so I wear my necklace.

More Situations That Are Hard for Empaths

Large Gatherings

A large gathering like a birthday party, business conference, or sci-fi convention can devastate an empath, leaving them befuddled and wondering why, until they learn that they are suffering from an emotional and energy overload.

Environments that Are Stressful for Everyone

Some places are particularly stressful for anyone. For example, fear, anxiety, hope, and despair fill doctors’ offices and courthouses. So much energetic uproar can be a nasty experience for a sensitive.

Times of national crises can also hit empaths hard. In the same vein, empaths might feel the ongoing turmoil of disenfranchised groups.

A situation doesn’t have to be all bad to be stressful. Doctors’ offices are places of healing. Political demonstrations can be scary, even when all goes well.

Toxic Environments

The insane holiday dinner, the badgering employer, … you get the idea.

Healthy Work Environments that Can Cause Overload

Some good, fulfilling jobs lend themselves to emotional and energy overload. Think of a counselor, psychic healer, or taxi driver. If you have this sort of a job, shield yourself at work.

Wearing your fluorite necklace in the situations listed above can make all the difference.

Empaths Need Boundaries

Boundaries can be complex and confusing for anyone. Empaths might have additional concerns.

For one, empathy helps us have compassion. There’s a prevalent misconception that boundaries cannot go hand-in-hand with compassion.

No matter how much you care about a person, you are not obliged to take responsibility for their feelings. For example, let’s say someone near you is angry but is suppressing it or otherwise not taking responsibility for it. And you suddenly feel inexplicably furious. If you suspect you have internalized this person’s rage, remind yourself it’s not your responsibility to play it out for them by feeling it, verbalizing it, or otherwise acting on it.

And wear your necklace the next time you’re around them.

Or wear it all the time if you tend to play out other people’s feelings.

Doing work that someone else should tend to is not compassionate. It devalues the person’s ability to step up to the plate and blocks an opportunity for them to do so.

Effective Boundaries

Boundaries are not always statements. For an empath, the necklace makes a boundary for you. You don’t always need to say anything.

The following is oversimplified, but bear with me. Most of the time, when someone states a boundary, they’re not making the boundary. They’re:

making demands that will probably not be met, instead of taking care of themselves

grimly committing to a course of action that they don’t follow

isolating

continuing or beginning a situation that nurtures their resentments

drawing an unnecessary line in the sand that provokes retaliation

or otherwise hurting themselves and the person with whom they are speaking.

Any of that can happen without the speaker’s awareness.

Most of the time, a boundary is an action. It is going about your life, taking care of yourself, and treating the other person(s) involved gently, kindly, courteously, supportively—and serenely, instead of grinding your teeth.

This ends the oversimplification.

If boundaries elude you, or you can’t make them kindly, book a psychic reading with me.

Boundaries and compassion go hand-in-hand. Yes, sometimes it’s the compassion of a sword. But most of the time, no.

Combining Magical and Worldly Boundaries

Responsibility for my well-being requires metaphysical means combined with actions on the worldly plane. So I combine a fluorite necklace with mundane boundaries.

More about the Complexity of Boundaries

Boundaries are complex in a world filled with people who don’t take full responsibility for their ideas, emotions, and actions, and expect others to do the intellectual, emotional, and physical work that keeps things afloat.

Their expectations might be subconscious. And no one can be perfect about taking responsibility for their wrongs. Still, do not let anyone thrust their blame, shame, or anything else they should own onto you. If you need help with this, Shamanic counseling guides you through the rocky, complex waters of boundaries.

Internalizing Someone Else’s Energy
to Heal Them

The Gods Give You a Gift and a Choice,
Not a Mandate

I imagine some empaths heal people by playing out their feelings. Doing that is a choice, not a mandate.

Providing that service without hurting oneself or the client requires more abilities than empathy. Safety also probably requires training, some of which would be quite specific.

Empathy is a valuable tool for me during a psychic reading. For one thing, it shows me something of what my client is experiencing. But I don’t cling to my client’s emotions, physical sensations, and other energies that I’m feeling from them. In other words, I don’t play it out for them; I feel it long enough for it to inform the reading and then let it pass.

Why I Wear a Fluorite Necklace Every Day

I wear a fluorite necklace all day, almost every day. Here’s one reason:

The world is filled with people. People are filled with emotions. That’s a lot of emotions I might be picking up, even when I’m alone in my apartment.

When I go out on walks, the same holds true, if not truer.

Does my empathy work when I’m asleep at night? Who knows?! I want pleasant dreams so I wear my necklace to bed.

Fluorite’s Energy Is Sweet and Harmonious

Fluorite is an easy gem to wear: Its energy is gentle and smooth, like a summer brook rippling through Christopher Robin’s woods. So you probably won’t need to make any adjustments to wearing fluorite.

Many gemstones make me feel terrible. For example, some have a harsh rapid vibration that irritates my nervous system. Finding a gemstone that I can wear every day like fluorite is remarkable. Only ten gems suit me that much. I own a lot of them, LOL.

The first year or so that I wore the necklace, I rarely took it off. The exception was when I did a psychic reading for someone other than myself, I had to remove the necklace. For one thing, part of my work involves sharing with my clients what my otherworldly senses perceive about them. Empathy is one of those senses.

Eventually, I was able to keep the necklace on during a session and still sense what I needed, to do my best for my client.

I’ve worn fluorite necklaces for decades. So I might have forgotten needing to take it off more often at first. In any case, no big adjustments were necessary.

Fluorite Does Not Shut Down All My Empathy

I still feel empathy when I wear fluorite. Speaking of memory, I wonder if I still felt empathy when I was first started wearing the fluorite. I suspect it is a permeable ward so it lets in what you need.


Why I Own Fluorite Bracelets

I suggest starting with a necklace and eventually trying a bracelet.

A fluorite bracelet became an effective shield for me, only after I’d worn a necklace for years.

Bracelets help me wear fluorite every day by giving me fashion options. Don’t let anyone tell you that fashion is shallow. Personal adornment is sacred.

Everyone’s different. Perhaps a bracelet will work for you right away. I can only tell you what worked for me. Maybe use your intuition to see what suits you.

Holiday Stress and Empaths

How to Stay Sane during the Holidays if You’re a Sensitive

Holidays can be difficult for anyone, let alone empaths. Crises increase during the holidays. Empaths can pick up that traumatic energy.

Even if there’s no trauma, energy is flying around and emotions are going every which way. Overwhelming!

Fall and winter holidays are not the only potentially stressful ones. Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, any holiday can cause a riot.

Make the holidays easier. Buy a fluorite necklace as an early holiday gift for yourself. You’ll be in better shape for your loved ones.

Where to Buy Your Fluorite Necklace

This post’s photographs show a lovely necklace and bracelet from Otter Spirit.

I view fluorite jewelry as working tools for a sensitive soul. I like Otter Spirit’s simple designs because they suit most outfits. Sacred artifacts can be simple and powerful.

I make talisman necklaces and wear one of them almost every day. They tend to be elaborate. Simple fluorite jewelry is likely to look nice with them. Ditto with an elaborate blouse.

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Otter Spirit

I’d been wanting to finally post this essay.

Then Otter Spirit asked for a collaboration. It felt so right! I don’t usually accept offers of magical tools in exchange for writing about them. For one thing, the offers tend to seem sleazy. But Otter Spirit was different.

Andrada, Otter Spirit’s PR Associate who contacted me, demonstrated sincere warmth. She was also respectful without fawning and promptly addressed my concerns without equivocation.

I went to their site and, lo, they had fluorite necklaces. Synchronicity! It was guidance to post this piece.

The easy, good energy when working with Andrada bodes well for you as a customer.

Unboxing My Otter Spirit Package

I opened the shipping box to see beautiful gift boxes. Inside each was a pouch containing a piece of jewelry. There was a lovely fluorite necklace and bracelet.

Pretty packaging makes me feel like the sender is treating me like a person instead of a sale. This is a seller who will care about you.

That personal connection is important. I want sacred artifacts from a seller who respects both mystical tools and the buyer.

The Fairy Gods Adore You

You are a child of ancient Gods. They think you are wonderful, exactly as you are. They want you to be good to yourself. Take care of you now.

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